Saving marriage can be emotionally and mentally draining, especially if so much has been said and done. However, when you are truly committed to save your marriage you need more than just mere perseverance. You have to go deeper than that. You need to learn to have faith that your marriage is worth saving even if everything seems against the odds. You need to have faith that love is still there in spite the fact that you are fighting or not talking every day. Trying to save your marriage is like knowing that there is sunlight coming in the middle of a great storm.
You need to believe in your faith, because love is like that sun in the storm. Although, it is all dark and gloomy, but it’s just there behind the clouds. All you have to do is believe in it. All these talk may sounds like crap to you, but hear me out.
Saving marriage depends on your commitment and your belief. This will fuel you motivation and give you strength to go that extra mile. Do you know why some people just give up and lose hope from their marriage? Because in their heart they do not believe that it is not something worth saving, even the cause is as petty as not putting the toilet seat down.
While other marriages still managed to be salvaged in spite of infidelity and lies because the couple believes that in spite of the hurt and in spite of the grave offense of the cheater, there is something good, and genuine behind it, like the sun hiding behind a nasty thunderstorm. You need to believe that this too shall pass.
Saving marriage is all about your faith in your marriage, your faith in yourself and most importantly, having faith in your partner that in the end he or she will do the right thing for you and your relationship. Saving marriage whatever the cause of the trouble may be requires strength of character. You need to be able to see beyond the pain, beyond the anger, beyond the hopelessness. Saving marriage is not easy, but it not impossible.